i've blogged b4 about my family issues, and this time im gonna rant some more cause things are getting out of hand and its all linked to(believe it or not) sheesha.
I Dont have a sister and the one person who i always considered as my sister is my cousin.
she moved to kuwiat a few years ago from jordan with her sister, and ever since she moved here its aways been me and her.
sleepovers, hanging out, going out.....everything!
she does sheesha her mother knows, her father knows, her family doesnt mind. shes been doing it for a while now, everyone knows about it including my father who also knows that the entire family approves of it.
My father hates it!
She doesnt smoke in front of him unless hermom and dad are present.
she knows my father hates it.
During ramadan wehad a family gathering at a restaurant and she orders a sheesha (her parents were not present) so does her sister and a few more ppl we know.
she gave him a look that kind of said (See i can smoke it even if my parents are not here)
he took it personally
and she knew she would piss him off
she didnt realise that by annoying him she was ruining our relationship
he doesnt want me to go to their house any more
no more outings with them
no more sleepovers
and anything related to them = sheesha
i dont get phone calls to join in anything anymore
im always sitting @ home
no i explained to herthat waht she did was a mistakebut she still finds a way to mention to my father that er family allows it and she will do what herfamily allows.
all am saying is thanks for ruining out friendship cause u wanna show off to your cousin, cause you cant not order a sheesha when hes around.
and just cause you are pissed with my father doesnt mean you have to avoid me, or act like you are busy doing things just so we dont see each other to avoid a conversation with him.
and when i wanna do something you are always busy or you have to wait for you sister, just cause you wanna go to a place that i didnt suggest.
when other ppl whose parents you dont piss off call you, you are more than willing to drop everything and head to them yet you cant stop by my house thats less than 2 mins away to drop off the money and yes i do say drop off cause you always have an excuse not to come out (bathroom, tired, food......whatever)
we do still have a good times and good days but the bad ones are more than the good ones..
i didnt do anything....im still me
Im not my father
you have issues with him....solve em or AVOID them or HIM but im not a part of it.
you were sick and i stayed at your house for one week.....i have not been feeling well for this is the third day now you only called on the 1st day.
thanks for asking
5 comments:
hmm too complicated! I think she dared your dad in a way & that's not ok Rash..
Hmm.... i hate when things like that happen. but i hope you guys dont start hating each other ...
maybe you should talk to your father. and let them fix things between them.
Salaamaat *virtual hug*
or Maybe you should quit sheesha ;p-
Salamaat.
I think she over stepped her boundaries, she should have respected your dad even though she had the ability to do what she wanted. But some people just like pushing buttons and it wasn't smart on her part.
O I hope you feel better soon.
I draw myself the red lines... the ones I am not suppose to cross, sorry but I think she crossed that line!! She should have thought twice before doing so.. your dad just got agitated because she was kinda ... well you know what I mean!
I think its better if you have a talk with both, specially her :-)
awww *hug* i hope you feel better dear.. i hate to say this, but if she really cared she would try to respect your dad .. i hope you two solve it : )
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